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Hey bartender I would like uh one of those peach vodka or a peach crush that I remember having the other day but would like to experience it again. I think that would hit the spot

Sometimes human connection can be really weird and off, but thats alright. That's just part of human nature. Now throw in anonymity and....yeah a lot of things get thrown out the window like basic decency.

I had to kinda detach myself from someone a couple weeks ago. Ever since I did that they disappeared, like they were never there. Really strange honestly but not the first time someone has done that as i find that now a lot of people who had a falling out with me this year tend to just disappear from my radar all together or just end up being there but never interacting. *sigh*

The reason I did that? Well they were pretty obsessed with me - I can't tell if its as a person or as a partner. I'm hoping it's not the latter.

I could tell they just treated me

like an object by the way they

Whenever they pointed out

everything I did it felt like I was

Maybe I was being avoidant in some cases, I will admit that. I often found myself just going offline to do whatever I wanted or setting my activity to private. I know its cowardly but when I went online i felt more nervous than ever. I didn't feel like myself at all.

Maybe they wanted more out of me in

general, I feel its valid to feel

The final nail on the coffin: I made a passing remark of being almost close with someone. They didn't mind it at the time and gave me tips or was supported. Then months later, suddenly it was an issue. On how I should have considered the fact I shouldn't have done that with another person just because I had rejected them. I found their questions invasive as I never promised to do anything - it read like a partner trying to interrogate their partner. I told them off and thats how I distanced myself.

I just hope that they got what they wanted - they were inside their house most of the time, which is isolating and explains a lot of their behavior. Even if people can see different sides of this I knew the connection was no longer making us happy.

And that's why i avoid any too close interactions with people online.

Well, in in the internet, some people can flip from being in love, to being extremely hostile. The better route here is to tell you that you dont like that person. Or it could just cause problems. I see this problem multiple times.

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